Surabaya’s
pious female mayor, appears never to have consulted Voltaire’s wisdom.
Virginity, in Risma’s view — or more specifically, religious chastity — is so
important that it must be imposed on individuals by the state.
Let’s talk about sex
Thanks to
condoms, birth control pills and various oher contraceptives, sex can now be
enjoyed freely and safely by all of humankind, regardless of marital status.
Fact.
What is to
be gained, then, from needlessly prolonging one’s virgin years, even as the
body desires sexual fulfillment?
Why should
unmarried couples be expected to waste years of their lives proactively
avoiding sex, when we know that sex is essentially harmless — not to mention
immensely pleasurable — if performed safely and with mutual consent?
As the
18th-century philosopher Voltaire once said: “To think of virginity as a virtue
— and not a barrier that separates ignorance from knowledge — is an infantile
superstition.”
Tri
Rismaharini, Surabaya’s pious female mayor, appears never to have consulted
Voltaire’s wisdom. Virginity, in Risma’s view — or more specifically, religious
chastity — is so important that it must be imposed on individuals by the state.
As a secularist
and a human rights defender, I find it difficult to conceive of anything more
dystopian, anything more contrary to individual liberty, than Risma’s ban on
Valentine’s Day and her de facto criminalization of premarital sex.
For those
who have forgotten, or are not yet familiar with Surabaya’s Valentine’s Day
raids, allow me to explain how “Mother Risma” recently attempted to “save” her
young constituents from the sin of premarital sex.
Raids and arrests
Beginning on
Valentine’s Day morning, and ending on Feb. 15, Surabaya police blitzed through
hotels and dormitories, arresting any couple suspected of having (or planning)
premarital sex. That the couples had chosen to fornicate in private, with
mutual consent, and mostly with the aid of contraception, was of no importance
to Risma or the police. On Valentine’s Day, Risma declared, all premarital sex
is equally abhorrent and deserving of arrest.
In addition
to hotels and dormitories, police also raided Surabaya’s minimarts in search of
unscrupulous vendors selling contraceptives to unmarried couples. Hundreds of
condoms were thus confiscated by police, who feared that such items might
enable unmarried couples to practice safe sex.
Police also
seized several hundred kilograms of chocolate confections during the raids,
ostensibly for being sold in combination with condoms. Susanto, a spokesman at
the Indonesian Commission for Child Protection (KPAI), even claimed that some
stores had given free condoms to young customers who purchased Valentine’s Day
chocolates. Minimarts denied these allegations, however, claiming that images
of so-called chocolate-condom “packages,” which appeared on social media, had
been photoshopped by anti-Valentine’s activists.
By the end
of the operation, 223 couples had been arrested by the police, according to
Merdeka.com. The detainees were then held at a nearby “social center” following
their arrest, where they were separated from one another until a parent or
relative came to “pick them up.”
Their only
crime? Attempting to have consensual sex behind closed doors, most probably
with the aid of a condom.
Risma’s motives
Before we
consider the morality of Risma’s Valentine’s Day purge, it is important to
first understand why Risma feels justified in her use of state power to repress
premarital sex.
In the year
2015, given how much we now know about safe sex, there is really only one type
of person who has the audacity to campaign against sexual freedom for
consenting individuals, and against the use of contraception among unmarried
couples.
That person
is, of course, a religious person.
“It is no
accident that people of faith often want to curtail the private freedom of
others,” the philosopher Sam Harris said in his 2006 book “The End of Faith.”
“This impulse has less to do with the history of religion and more to do with
its logic, because the very idea of privacy is incompatible with the existence
of God.”
As a devout
Muslim, Risma firmly believes that sex before marriage is a mortal sin — a
crime against God. After all, if God were not the victim of this so-called
crime, then who else could it be? Who else could bear witness to an offense
that takes place behind closed doors, and who else could press charges in lieu
of any human plaintiff? Needless to say, only an all-knowing and all-seeing
entity could detect such a clandestine and victimless crime.
Preventing
premarital sex out of fear that it would offend the almighty is clearly the
motive for Risma’s ban on Valentine’s Day, and also explains her hostility to
contraception. Strangely, however, when the dreaded Feb. 14 came along, Risma
seemed hesitant to admit that her religious convictions were the true source of
her concerns.
If Risma was
honest about her motives, she would have openly declared that her belief in zina
— the Islamic sin of fornication — compelled her to meddle in the sex lives of
her constituents.
But instead
of admitting this simple fact, Risma threw up a few classic red herrings,
arguing that her proscription of Valentine’s Day is a defense against “Western
culture” rather than an attempt to please God: “We hope that the ban [on
Valentine's Day] will support our efforts to save Surabaya’s children from ‘new
colonialism,’ ” Risma said on Feb. 14, “which takes the form of illegal drugs,
alcohol and other negative Western cultural influences.”
This is a
convenient way of shifting the blame for all the perceived vices of Risma’s own
constituents — drug use, free sex etc. — onto an external factor beyond her
control; in this case, of course, the evil West.
But why is
that Western culture, as Risma’s conceives it, appears to be replete with
“negative” influences? What is it about Western values that warrants such
grotesque repression as Risma’s Valentine’s Day raids, and her cruel denial of
contraceptives to young couples? What exactly is she afraid of?
First of
all, I will grant Risma one point: Perhaps it is true that Western ideas about
individual liberty and free sex have led to greater promiscuity in Surabaya. In
fact, this is probably true of all urban areas throughout the developing world.
This admission does not mean, however, that individual liberty and free sex are
intrinsically immoral, simply because such ideas tend to encourage higher rates
of fornication. Rather, for premarital sex to be immoral, it would have to
result in some kind of harm to either of its participants. Sadly for Risma,
however, we know all too well that premarital sex can be safely enjoyed with
the aid of contraception.
So what’s
the problem?
It seems
obvious to me that Risma’s ban on Valentine’s Day has absolutely nothing to do
with keeping her constituents safe from physical or psychological harm, and
everything to do with not angering her God. And if this is not clear enough
already, then I invite you to play a thought experiment.
A thought experiment
Suppose that
some product of “Western culture” inspired two unmarried Surabayans to purchase
a condom and have consensual sex. The couple go off and have an enjoyable
tryst, nobody gets harmed, and nobody else is even aware that an act of
fornication has taken place. For Risma to claim that such sex is an immoral
manifestation of “new colonialism,” or that it reflects a “negative … cultural
influence,” would be incredibly odd, given that the outcomes of the event were
entirely positive.
Western
culture should not be considered immoral simply because it encourages
premarital sex. If anything, Western-style sexual freedom appears to be a
superbly ethical idea, since it encourages only safe sex among consensual
partners, and considers the use of contraception to be a necessary
precondition.
This rather
straightforward moral calculus changes entirely, however, with the introduction
of an omniscient God figure who has placed a jealous ban on premarital sex. In
this context — which Risma considers to be our contemporary reality —
fornication is considered immoral not for its real-world consequences, but for
the apparent displeasure it causes to God.
Using this
rationale, then, if God really is all-knowing and all-seeing, then he is
presumably watching in tortuous agony each time an unmarried Surabayan sets off
to the 7-Eleven to buy a condom. Astonishingly, however, time after time, God
fails to defend his young virgins from the evil lure of contraception and
fornication. This inertia, of course, begs a few questions.
“Why doesn’t
he intervene?” one of Risma’s chaste supporters might ask. “Why doesn’t he,
with all his incredible powers, simply remove the condoms from the shelf and
save the young virgin from sin?”
These are
very reasonable and pertinent questions, to which those who believe in God must
provide answers, particularly those, like Risma, who are so convinced of God’s
existence that they believe his will should be imposed on everyone else by
force. In order of logical probability, then, consider the following options:
1) God is
secretly a closet public health nerd, and he knows that contraception is one of
the greatest inventions in human history — or, perhaps, he invented it himself!
— and thus resolves to let the young virgin do the sensible thing and purchase
a condom at the 7-Eleven.
2) God
really can see all of the world’s unmarried couples during the act of
fornication, but is unable to intervene because he is either too tired, too
busy, concentrating on something more important, or not truly omnipotent.
3) God
really can see all of the world’s fornicators, doing their thing, but does not
intervene because he feels that sexual morality is a private matter.
4) God does
not exist, has never existed, and therefore does not have an opinion on sexual
morality, let alone the capacity to police it.
The fact
that God never intervenes to prevent his young virgins from fornicating — even
on the dreaded Valentine’s Day! — ought to suggest to Risma that God really
doesn’t so much care about how, why, where, when or with whom his subjects
choose to have sex, or whether or not they use protection. (If he exists at
all, that is.)
Risma, commanded by God?
This leads
me on to another doctrinal conundrum that Risma routinely fails to address: If
ultimately God judges his adherents at the gates of heaven, rather than here on
Earth, then why is it Risma’s duty, as the publicly elected mayor of Surabaya,
to punish those who privately disobey his commands?
This, I
believe, really gets to the core of Risma’s bigoted view of premarital sex, and
the danger of her religious beliefs in general. To put it briefly, Risma is
convinced that she has been elected to serve God, first and foremost, as well
as the people of Surabaya. In fact, in June 2014, Risma said exactly that:
“Morally, I am accountable to God and the people of Surabaya [emphasis added].”
This
conflict between Risma’s two perceived benefactors — one real and one imagined
— is causing her to make totally irrational policy decisions based on religious
dogma and fear of God, rather than pursuing what is best for her constituents.
Clearly, God and the people of Surabaya have very different interests,
particularly when it comes to sexual fulfillment.
After the
disastrous shutdown of Surabaya’s Dolly red-light district in June last year,
Risma’s Valentine’s Day raids are really just the latest tragic installment in
a long line of God-fearing policy blunders, driven by her religious faith.
Make no
mistake, Risma believes that her power as an elected politician can and should
be used to impose her personal religious prejudice on private individuals,
insofar as it pleases God’s prudish will.
This sort of
authoritarianism should be of tremendous concern to anyone who believes that
Indonesia is better off as a secular democracy, in which religious adherence is
a private matter for each individual, and not to be enforced by the state. (I
note that Indonesia’s Constitution mandates a compulsory belief in God — this,
too, is problematic, and shall be considered in Part 2.)
For some
strange reason, though, few commentators have been brave enough to speak out
against Risma’s lurch toward theocracy, even as she hacks away at Indonesia’s
secular Constitution.
Among
unelected religious officials, the urge to police the sex lives of private
individuals is, of course, pathologically common. But Risma’s insistence on
using secular, state institutions — such as the police and local government —
to enforce religious observance is something entirely different, and vastly
more dangerous.
I am going
to pay Risma the compliment of assuming that she does not want Surabaya to
become another Aceh, Tehran or Riyadh. However, given her recent attempts to
micro-manage the sex lives of her constituents, it does seem that Risma is
somewhat tantalized by the idea of using state power to enforce her own petty
religious prejudice on everyone else, whether they like it or not.
This
creeping theocracy has to stop.
Patrick
Tibke is a Jakarta-based writer and a recent graduate of the Southeast Asian
Studies program at SOAS, University of London.